James Osborne, Partner

Come and see me at the earliest opportunity – if you leave it too late, then we may just be looking at damage limitation, rather than getting you a fair settlement.

Divorce and separation isn’t easy. You’ll need emotional stamina throughout, but I will do everything in my power to ensure the process is as swift and easy as possible.

Be honest with me – you can trust me implicitly, and it makes life very difficult if you don’t provide an honest version of events.

Always document your intentions when you start living with your partner. Verbal agreements are insufficient.

How much will it cost?

The firm can now offer a fixed fee for a divorce, but the cost for financial and children matters will depend on how complex the case is. I’ll always do what I can to keep costs to a minimum.

Can I get custody of my children?

Custody has not existed for some time. The court now refers to ‘child arrangements’ – these define which parent a child should spend time with and which parent a child will live with.

Should I move money out of my bank account before I get divorced?

No. Courts can examine your recent transactions, and may ask that you add the money back in.

How long will it take me to get divorced?

A straightforward, uncontested divorce usually takes around four to six months to be finalised.

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